Don't belive it! He's a raving maniac! HE BEATS ME! ACK! He's COMING!!
NO! NO! KEVLAR! OUCH! *smack whack* ARGH! *BANG BANG*
*a long, dead silence fills the room, followed by a sudden sob which is choked down and silenced before it can fully arise.*
All joking asside, Kev has a writing style that makes him sound more arrogant than he actually is. I myself have been frustrated by it regularly, not so much lately because I have just decided to chock up 90% of the disgruntlement I feel sometimes when he's talking to me to his writing style. It is a good writing style, nothing wrong with it. I'd rather it didn't change than became something less him, and weaker because of that.
I think it is a general failing of the media. The Internet is digital text based, and because of that it lacks a great deal of the communication methods that we humans have developed over the last 6,000 to 3 million years (depending on who you ask.) We as humans -NEED- the see and hear people when we communicate, to see the body language, to see the facial expressions, to hear intonations in the voice.
Even in writing, as in those archaic things like posted hand written letters, you get a lot about the person in the way the letters are formed, in how the letter 'A' in one place looks different than in another place. How when someone is rushed and passionate the letters get a bit sloppy, and more agressive. How someone calm and cool has smooth, collected writing.
But in digital text we don't get that. Why else do you think those stupid ascii faces started appearing so fast. It wasn't to be cool. It was to express when you are joking. Or really mad. Or frustrated, or any of the other hundreds of states of mind that you can almost always pick up from someone just by talking in person. Online, in digital real time and semi-real time such as the BgBB, we do not have that data available to us. In fact, most of the time we mask it utterly, and sit staring at the monitor with blank, slack faces and the only indications of the passions we feel becomes the velocity and force of key strikes.
Is this healthy?
I think not. The lack of propper human connectivity can be very destructive.
Is this the way it is?
You bet. And because of it our brains are tuned hyper sensitive, over anylizing every word typed because we are searching for that body language that we are missing out on. We jump to conclusions, we search for things that are not there, and we take an agressive, or passive agressive, or hyper intelligent writing style as 'mean spirited'.
Is there something to do about it?
Sure, feel more, express more, do emoticons even if you hate them like I do. They are valuable tools in expressing your body language. Hell, pose. Use that silly little *blah blah* method to show that you are doing an action. Let people know when you are joking, when you are serious, and when you are hurt.
And don't worry, we are the only generation that will really have to deal with this. In 15 years we'll all be doing things in real time face to face over teleconferancing. In 30 years we will have fully functioning virtual worlds with avatars. In 45 years we will be plugged in through our brains and our avatars will be fully expressive entities that we control.
But in the mean time, while some of us get old and have families and kids that look at us like we are psychotic for ever having seen something as -OLD- as '8-bit graphics and 2-bit sound', in the mean time we have to let people know things about our body language. And we have to give and take a wee bit more leeway with our overly sensitive heads.
Oh, and KingFu, bite me, Elves fuckin rock.